Hmmmm ...I bet many of you hear this saying all the time.
But what really do people mean when they say this? I have a couple questions to ask.
What is a Friend? What does a Friend do? What is the true meaning of the word Friend && lastly Do you have any "Friends"?
When you were going up in your younger days, all it took was a "Hi", my name is "whatever" and you can become friends with any person that was there. You met friends in the weirdest places like in a play park, on the beach or even at the clinic. But today it is not that easy anymore ...you have to be careful with the people you call your "friends".
The people who are closest to you, are most likely, the ones to betray you. You just can't meet someone in a day, then next two weeks you both are the bestest of friends, how did that happen? It takes more than a year for you to know a person fully and even more than that to trust them. Things like having a friend does not just occur over a weekend or a couple nights on the phone. It may sometimes even take your whole lifetime for you to really know a person.
You may have friends who you tell everything to and then when one of the secrets get out ...the only person you told it to IS the person who told others, think about it for a min! ....[minute up]
You just can not run about and tell Tom Dick && Harry everything about you just because they say that they are you friend.
When you have someone that will be there for you through thick && thin, someone that when you need a shoulder to lean on, will be there for you, someone that would come running if you called in the "middle" of the night no matter how sleepy they are, someone who would go all out of their way just to see you happy ... someone who does not envy you, or wish that their life was just like yours no matter what problems they were going through, someone that will ALWAYS be there for you no matter what! && when they say they love you they dnt have to put that ish [no homo ] ..cause they mean it ..but in a good way.
So I want all of you guys to sit and watch your friends , how they act when you ask for a simple thing ...like say "hey can i borrow a dollar, i will give you it back tomorrow ...and they give you that dumb look, which means "Don't be stupid! ..you dnt have to give me back a dollar!], look at how they treat you && themselves,
get to know persons ....&& i mean really sit and get to know everything there is to know about them.
Even the silliest things.
&& also be careful of the wolves in sheep clothing && the back stabbers out there. The ones who pretend to be your friends just to get information out of you and just to go around and talk your name. Persons like that are no good ...The back stabbers, trust me if they back stab you once ... don't ever think that they wont do it again! #thatsafact
People get to know the persons you are hanging out with && telling all you business to, because if you don't that is something that you might end up regretting later on in life.
&& in this lifetime and generation I do not think that anyone wants to live with regrets of not choosing their "friends" wisely.
Remember
Live
Love <3
Laugh =)
JayDiorCouture
Deuces!
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